The problem is, while we're being all polite and reasonable and PC (apart from our oil-pillaging foreign policy, of course), the other side is decidedly not. They're using any and every means available to them to achieve their objectives. Like warriors do.
I'm not saying that we should start carrying out terrorist attacks against civilians. I'm not even suggesting that we should begin lying to our enemies as a matter of policy (the way Islamists do). But there's a lot we could be doing to defend our society, and our more enlightened values, without becoming lying, murderous, terrorist dirtbags.
Unless we change our strategy and tactics, and, most importantly, our mindset, the Islamists will win eventually -- in spite of our economic, military, and technological advantages. Because, in the end, spirit and determination count for a lot more. This has been proven repeatedly throughout history. The reason the Islamists were stopped in their tracks for roughly three hundred years is because, not only did Western Europeans have superior technology and military strength, but they were also under no illusions regarding the nature and the intentions of their enemy -- and they were totally committed to defending Christian Europe against the advances of Islam. There was no hand-wringing or equivocating.
We need the same sort of attitude today, regarding the defense of our secular democracies and the progressive values they promote. We need to cultivate the do-or-die determination of the samurai, and demonstrate to our enemies that we will not be defeated, no matter what they throw at us.
But before that can come about, two critical things need to happen: 1) We need to fully appreciate the moral and intellectual advantages of the West -- including personal liberties such as freedom of speech and freedom of the press, which are anethema to Islam; and, 2) We need to recognize that Western civilization has a determined enemy in the ideology of Islam. If we in the PC West cannot bring ourselves to acknowledge these things, then we're well and truly screwed. And nothing can help us.
If we're going to successfully defend our more enlightened society against the Forces of Darkness, Burqas and Beards, we need to become Zen masters of the rhetorical smack-down. To some extent, it's all about visualization, and putting things in the proper perspective. And keeping the testosterone levels (or cat-fighting instincts) surging whenever we're dealing with our Islamist foes.
Because, if you're visualizing hacking your way through that enemy with a freakin' samurai sword -- while you're debating with some mouthpiece for the Coalition for Seventh Century Values -- the outcome is going to be very different, than if you're sitting there imagining that you're having a reasonable conversation with a reasonable person who hasn't drunk the Kool Aid of intellectual oblivion. That's the deal. And that's what we're missing.